I want to share with you an article which you might find extremely interesting. It`s about foreplay.
What is foreplay?
Foreplay is what we indulge in before we have actual penetrative sex in some form or other. In theory, foreplay lasts a lot longer than sex itself, because foreplay can last anything from minutes before you have sex to all day before you have sex. Foreplay is about building up to sex.
My girlfriend wants me to spend more time on foreplay, why?
We are built a little bit differently to guys, and we do need to have some more arousal through foreplay at times. I’m not saying that women can’t go from 0 to 80 in a few minutes. Occasionally, we forget about foreplay altogether. however, in general we need that bit more extra stimulation before we get to penetrative sex.
How long should a foreplay last?
Foreplay needs to last until the woman feels fully stimulated, fully aroused and ready for penetration. You need to negotiate with your partner where foreplay stops. Does she want to have an orgasm before penetrative sex, in which case you need to continue your foreplay with each other until then. Men also like a lot of foreplay – be it giving massage, or things like that, so foreplay can last, to my mind, for hours and hours. For example, you can be in separate places and send text messages and e-mails, and that’s a form of foreplay. Then, when you get home you have sex. However, in general if you’re talking about purely close body contact, physical foreplay, it’s probably going to last, if you want an average, fifteen minutes to half an hour.
Is there a right way to kiss?
There is not a right way to kiss, but the important thing about kissing is that you need to keep your lips and your face relaxed. If you kiss somebody who’s unrelaxed, if they don’t relax their mouth, you tend not to get that much pleasure from the kiss. People who are good kissers, you can feel they’re almost like dancers. They’ve got this way of allowing the face to become more in the mouth, to become more mobile than people who are more afraid of kissing. There isn’t a right way to do it. Some people find it very easy to kiss well, while other people are a little bit more nervous about it and feel more inhibited. The main thing is to keep it all relaxed around here, and try to enjoy it, and go into it deep. Obviously, there are times when you might want to decide whether you’re going to use your tongue, and all that sort of thing, but relaxation is the key.
